If you meet an escort online through an online dating service such as Adult Friendfinder or I Want You then you have the advantage of getting to know them first, and them getting to know you first. This is important – especially if you are new at this – because it will make you less nervous when the time to meet in person comes. And she will be less nervous too. You have to remember that these women are women and even though they are “professionals” most women are a little nervous when meeting a new guy that they are about to be intimate with. Email becomes a form of foreplay.
Once you start communicating online with an escort – it can be very hot for both of you
And – as to anonymous – you probably don’t want to use your real email address that you use for everything else. There are a lot of free services like Yahoo and Hotmail that will give you a free email account. Anonymous is not only safer – but its sexier. Its easire to get very sexual when no one knows who you are.
You’ve heard if online cyber sex – but – until you have experienced it – you have no idea how interesting it can be. I’ve found that you can easilly bring a woman to orgasm mearly by typing words. Its rather amazing actually. And – when a woman is anonymous – she’s a whole different person. Email and chat give you the anonymous experience.
And – you get to know each other really well – sexually that is. You don’t have to worry about your looks or your body language or what your voice sounds like or how you smell. Its all mental – and – you’ll learn that the art of sex is mostly mental too. I describe that in more detail in my Nerd’s Guide to Sex. But trust me – its all about mental imagery – and online – its all mental.
Years ago I had a friend who did radio ads for me when I owned a couple of computer stores. We used to put together the most outrageous radio spots and he told be something that I’ll never forget. He said that radio was far more visual than television because you can use sound to paint any kind of mental image you want – where television was limited to what you can afford to create. Online sex is like that. I can use words and become a nine foot tall slimey space alien – grey tentacles with lots of suckers and an appatite for swuirming female flesh and women picture that and are all over me, even though in real life I’m just an aging fat nerd.
You don’t have to start out as a space alien – but you can talk about your sexual fantasies and see if you can find common ground exporing the common mental imagery that perpetuate the human race
If you can establish this kind of online foreplay then by the time you get together physically – you’re both ready for it. And it is something that anyone can do and its not hard to learn and it will help you understand women better. Something that is worth understanding.
Many online dating services also have https://besthookupwebsites.org/dating-in-your-40s/ live online chat. Or you can download Yahoo Messenger and go to the chat rooms and explore online interaction. Its a good way to help you start communicating verbally about sexuality. Understanding what gets women really hot is the first step to becomming an incredible lover. And escorts are looking for guys like you who are ready to learn how the game is really played.